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BRIGHT SKY - DOCUMENTATION
DAYONE - ENCRYPTED JOURNAL
MY PLAN - SAFETY PLANNING
OUR FAMILY WIZARD
TALKING PARENTS
ARTICLES

QUESTIONS TO VET POTENTIAL COUNSELORS - CHRIS MOLES
RECOGNIZING A REPENTANT ABUSER - PSALM 82 INITIATIVE
A LETTER TO A REPENTANT ABUSER - PSALM 82 INITIATIVE
TOUGH DATING QUESTIONS ABOUT PORN - WILD
WHEN YOUR PASTOR IS DOING THE DEVIL'S WORK - SARAH MCDUGAL
FORGIVE BUT REMEMBER, DARLING - SARAH MCDUGAL
13 DIMENSIONS OF SEX ADDICTION-INDUCED TRAUMA AMONG PARTNERS AND SPOUSES - DR. OMAR MINWALLA
Securing housing after domestic violence
Deceptive Sexuality and Trauma (DST): A Clinical Model by Dr. Omar Minwalla Licensed Psychologist and Clinical Sexologist
The Secret Sexual Basement: The Traumatic Impacts of Deceptive Sexuality on the Intimate Partner and Relationship
ASSESSMENTS | Threat + Danger + Lethality

Mosaic Threat Assessment
Danger + Lethality Assessment
Assessing Risk Factors for Intimate Partner Homicide | OJP.gov | Office of Justice Programs
BOOKS | Evaluating Your Relationship

Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage: A Christian Woman's Guide to Hidden Emotional and Spiritual Abuse
Should I Stay or Should I Go?: A Guide to Knowing if Your Relationship Can--and Should--be Saved
The Verbally Abusive Relationship: How to recognize it and how to respond
The Emotionally Destructive Marriage: How to Find Your Voice and Reclaim Your Hope
Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving A Relationship with a Narcissist
BOOKS | Understanding Abuse + Coercive Control

Controlling People: How to Recognize, Understand, and Deal with People Who Try to Control You
Healing from Hidden Abuse: A Journey Through the Stages of Recovery from Psychological Abuse
How He Gets Into Her Head: The Mind of the Male Intimate Abuser
No Visible Bruises: What We Don’t Know About Domestic Violence Can Kill Us
Prisoners In The Shed: The Harrowing True Journey From Captivity To Hope
Steps to Freedom: Escaping Intimate Control
Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men
The Wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists: Coping with the One-Way Relationship in Work, Love, and Family
BOOKS | Financial Abuse During Marriage + Separation + Divorce

Exposing Financial Abuse: When Money Is a Weapon
Divorce: Think Financially, Not Emotionally® Volume I: What Women Need To Know About Securing Their Financial Future Before, During, and After Divorce
NOLO Divorce & Money: Make the Best Financial Decisions During Divorce
BOOKS | Legal Support

The Batterer as Parent: Addressing the Impact of Domestic Violence on Family Dynamics
NOLO's Essential Guide to Divorce
NOLO's Essential Guide to Child Custody and Support
The Quincy Solution
Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder
BOOKS | Parenting Through Divorce + Trauma

The Batterer as Parent: Addressing the Impact of Domestic Violence on Family Dynamics
Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child: The Heart of Parenting
The Well-Armored Child: A Parent’s Guide to Preventing Sexual Abuse
When Dad Hurts Mom: Helping Your Children Heal the Wounds of Witnessing Abuse
BOOKS | Post-Trauma Wellness & Healing

The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
How We Love: Discover Your Love Style, Enhance Your Marriage
Safe People: How to Find Relationships that are Good for You and Avoid Those That Aren't
Systems of Love & Honor: A Guide to Recognizing Safe Relationships | eBook
Trauma and Recovery: The Aftermath of Violence--From Domestic Abuse to Political Terror
Necessary Endings
BOOKS | Rebuilding after Spiritual Abuse

Redeeming Power: Understanding Authority and Abuse in the Church
Misreading Scripture with Western Eyes: Removing Cultural Blinders to Better Understand the Bible
The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse: Recognizing and Escaping Spiritual Manipulation and False Authority Within the Church
Suffering and the Heart of God: How Trauma Destroys and Christ Restores
We Too: How the Church Can Respond Redemptively to the Sexual Abuse Crisis
BOOKS | Recognizing Predators and Abusive Systems

Abuse Advocacy | A Quick Visual Guide | eBook
The Gift of Fear and Other Survival Signals that Protect Us From Violence
Myths We Believe, Predators We Trust: 37 Things You Don't Want to Know About Abuse in Church (But You Really Should)
Predators: Pedophiles, Rapists, and Other Sex Offenders
Safe Churches: Responding to Abuse in the Faith Community
Seducers Among Our Children: How to Protect Your Child from Sexual Predators
Sleights of Mind: What the Neuroscience of Magic Reveals about Our Everyday Deceptions
The Sociopath Next Door
Systems of Abuse: A Guide to Recognizing Toxic Behavior Patterns | eBook
BOOKS | Recovering from Sexual Abuse & Betrayal Trauma

Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal
The Great Sex Rescue: The Lies You've Been Taught and How to Recover What God Intended
Not Marked: My Story of Finding Hope and Healing after Sexual Abuse
On the Threshold of Hope: Opening the Door to Healing for Survivors of Sexual Abuse
The Psychology of Porn: Essays on Pornography, Objectification & Healing
The Sexually Healthy Man: Essays on Spirituality, Sexuality, & Restoration
What Is a Girl Worth?: My Story of Breaking the Silence and Exposing the Truth about Larry Nassar and USA Gymnastics
Addictions: A Banquet in the Grave
Redeeming Heartache: How Past Suffering Reveals Our True Calling
BOOKS | Spiritual Guidance On Abuse, Adultery, Separation & Divorce

Black and White Bible, Black and Blue Wife: My Story of Finding Hope after Domestic Abuse
Called to Peace: A Survivor’s Guide to Finding Peace and Healing After Domestic Abuse
The Life-Saving Divorce: Hope for People Leaving Destructive Relationships
COACHING

Clarity Coaching
Post-Trauma Wellness Coaching
Betrayal Trauma - Crisis Coaching
Family Court Intervention
FUN RESOURCES + MERCH

Snarky Inspirational Tees+More | WILD du Jour | Store
Discovery Mountain Radio Series
Pilgrim's Progress Dramatized Audio
ORGANIZATIONS WE LOVE

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PODCASTS

BARE MARRIAGE PODCAST - Sheila Wray Gregoire
BETRAYAL TRAUMA RECOVERY - Anne Blythe
COFFEE + CONVO - Sarah McDugal
FLYING FREE PODCAST - Natalie Anne Hoffman
INSTITUTE FOR SEXUAL HEALTH - Dr. Omar Minwalla
PSALM 82 INITIATIVE - Thomas Pryde
SPEAKING OUT ON SEX ABUSE - Jimmy & Clara Hinton
SUPPORT GROUPS

WILD #TraumaMamas | The Main Group
WILD #TraumaMamas | The NeuroDivergent Group
WILD #TraumaNonnas | The Grandmamas Group
Live WILD | The Public Group
WILD | Unshadowed
WILD | Warriors
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WILD on Social Media

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YOUTUBE CHANNELS

ABUSE & TRAUMA RECOVERY - Sarah McDugal
BETRAYAL TRAUMA RECOVERY - Anne Blythe
ONE MOM'S BATTLE - Tina Swithin
UNDERSTANDING NARCISSISM - Dr. Ramani
DV HOTLINES WORLDWIDE

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What's Inside:

All of WILD's favorite things for mamas parenting through trauma + abuse:

books for parenting
books to help kids cope
books for understanding sensory issues in trauma kids
resources for teaching kids about sexuality
resources for addressing addiction and porn at various ages
online courses on puberty and sex for teen girls
character-building audio dramas for the whole family, and
a special invitation to WILD's #TraumaMama support group!

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