“Am I overreacting... or is it abuse?”

If you’ve ever asked yourself this—this free crash course is for you.

Start in under 60 seconds.

This resource is for you if…

...you’re exhausted trying to explain your reality to people who don’t get it.

...you second-guess your own memories.

...you’ve been told you’re bitter, overreacting, or too emotional.

...you feel confused, stuck, or scared—and unsure what to do next.

...you’re not sure if what’s happening is “bad enough” to take action.

IS THIS ABUSE? gives you

Clarity + Language + Next Steps

  • 20 short, trauma-informed videos (under 5 min each)

  • Self-assessment quizzes to validate your experience

  • 100% free. Access instantly. Confidential.

What You Get Inside...

MODULES INCLUDE:

  • What is covert abuse?

  • The difference between human flaws vs. strategic harm

  • Why abusers manipulate systems (and how to spot it)

  • How trauma impacts your brain and body

  • Patterns of post-separation abuse

  • The exact 4 tools every abuser will use (with examples)

  • And more…

Includes audio-friendly access and transcript downloads.

“This course helped me stop minimizing everything. I finally realized I wasn’t crazy—I was being conditioned.”

Melissa, protective mom

“I shared this with my therapist and my lawyer. It made it so much easier to explain what I’d been through instead of grasping for definitions.”

Ashley, navigating custody court

BONUS

You'll also get my powerful
RED FLAGS CHART, also used by:

  • U.S. Navy Family Advocacy Groups (FAG)

  • Colorado State Court Division of Probation Services

  • social work professors

  • counselors and therapists

  • family law attorneys

  • first responders

  • and more.

Start ‘Is This Abuse?’ Now

click to access the full course instantly and

This isn’t therapy. This isn’t legal advice.

It is strategic clarity—so you can take your next steps with confidence.

Even if you’re not ready for court yet…

Even if no one else believes you…

Even if your story doesn’t “look like” the ones you’ve seen before…

This course can help you reclaim your voice.

What if you're not overreacting?
What if you’re navigating abuse?