IT'S HARD TO UNTANGLE THE TRUTH ABOUT ABUSE WHEN YOU'VE REACTED BADLY SOMETIMES TOO.
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PREPPED Unit 3 | I Blow Up Sometimes Too, What if I'm the Real Abuser?
You keep hearing about reactive abuse, and you can't help but wonder if it applies to you?
Let me guess...
You just want to feel normal again, but it's really freaking hard after everything you've been through.
You're scared your responses to mistreatment means you might be the real abuser.
You regret the times you've blown up under pressure, and you wonder if that puts you on the same level as the people who have hurt you the most.
Your abuser has gotten inside your head and you secretly wonder if you might be going crazy.
It's utterly overwhelming.
Say hello to PREPPED!
Let me break down how to recognize who the abuser really is.
In this PREPPED Kit - you'll get answers to questions like:
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What if I am the abuser in my relationships?
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Are my mistakes and failures abusive too?
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Am I still responsible for my reactions to being hurt?
If reacting to abuse gets a free pass, then what about my abuser's childhood trauma?
Your PREPPED kit includes:
an explanation of the trauma of recovering from emotional and psychological harm after escaping abuse or filing for divorce
expert interview + tips on how to assess patterns of behavior to know what constitutes abuse
checklists with 6 steps to healing after emotional harm
18-page workbook including complete interview transcripts
journaling pages with prompts to help you process thoughtfully
This question is common... you're not alone!
As a Clarity Coach, I guide traumatized women every day...
Sooner or later, every survivor wonders... I wasn't perfect. I got angry sometimes. I lost my cool under pressure.
WHAT IF THE REAL ABUSER IS ME?
It's normal for survivors to start to blame themselves for the mistreatment they endured.
I remember telling myself things like... If I can just stay completely silent and not react at all, then maybe it will get better?
I wanted so badly to know if this was my fault of not, and how to come to peace with everything.
That's why I do what I do now -- creating WILD resources to help you navigate healing!